{"id":109370,"date":"2021-03-12T05:35:19","date_gmt":"2021-03-12T05:35:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/fin2me.com\/?p=109370"},"modified":"2021-03-12T05:35:19","modified_gmt":"2021-03-12T05:35:19","slug":"a-decade-after-syrias-war-began-memories-haunt-a-family-it-tore-apart","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fin2me.com\/markets\/a-decade-after-syrias-war-began-memories-haunt-a-family-it-tore-apart\/","title":{"rendered":"A decade after Syria's war began, memories haunt a family it tore apart"},"content":{"rendered":"
DOUMA, Syria (Reuters) – Seham Hamu lost her husband, son and grand-daughter on the same night in 2016 when a missile struck their home in Douma, a rebel stronghold near the Syrian capital that saw some of the fiercest fighting of the civil war.<\/p> Now, aged 74 and confined to a wheelchair because of a heart condition, she looks after her son\u2019s four surviving children, a widowed daughter and a second daughter along with her husband and their children.<\/p>\n Their plight is not unusual in a country where hundreds of thousands of people have been killed during a decade of violence and millions more forced to flee their homes and settle elsewhere in Syria or abroad.<\/p>\n As the 10th anniversary of the start of the conflict in mid-March, 2011, approaches, Hamu just wants to forget.<\/p>\n \u201cI don\u2019t want to remember…it was too cruel,\u201d she said of the war, a multi-sided conflict that sucked in Islamist militants, myriad rebel groups, government troops and foreign forces.<\/p>\n Hamu, who was born and bred in Douma, has never left the town, which still shows the scars of the violence.<\/p>\n It is back under government control after a Russian-backed military campaign helped President Bashar al-Assad force Jaish al-Islam, the rebel group which controlled Douma in 2018, to retreat.<\/p>\n The aerial bombing campaign that flushed them out followed a years-long siege of hundreds of thousands of residents, many of whom fled. Some who now want to return from Turkish-held areas in the north are not allowed.<\/p>\n Douma is part of the Eastern Ghouta region that touches the outskirts of Damascus.<\/p>\n Eastern Ghouta town was where a suspected chemical attack took place in April, 2018 that prompted missile strikes by the United States, France and Britain against several suspected chemical weapons facilities in Syria.<\/p>\n The Syrian government and its ally Russia have denied involvement in any such attack.<\/p>\n Related Coverage<\/p>\n<\/p>\n Assad has survived the insurgency, which started as peaceful protests in March, 2011, a part of the \u201cArab Spring\u201d uprisings that shook Egypt, Algeria, Tunisia and beyond. But nowhere has the fallout been as devastating as in Syria.<\/p>\n From a precarious position, Assad now holds sway over many parts of the country, helped by Russia\u2019s military and Iran\u2019s Shi\u2019ite militias.<\/p>\n Hostile Turkey still controls swathes of territory in the northwest and the United States has a presence in the northeast, a major oil and wheat producing area.<\/p>\n Prior to the conflict, Hamu lived with her farmer husband who owned a mini-market. Relatively well off, the family were able to secure marriages for the son Subhi and both daughters on the same night.<\/p>\n But the war escalated, and, on the fateful night in 2016, her life was shattered.<\/p>\n \u201cI wish there had been no war and we lived in security. But this is God\u2019s will,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n The second floor of her traditional home is still charred and damaged by the flames that engulfed it in 2016, a permanent reminder of her loss.<\/p>\n People are gradually trickling back to Douma and other former rebel-held areas, now that the fighting has subsided.<\/p>\n More than half of Syria\u2019s pre-war population are either internally displaced inside Syria or refugees, according to new figures released by the U.N.\u2019s Office for the Coordination of Humanitarian Affairs (OCHA).<\/p> Faris al-Barghout, who heads a local charity, says life is gradually returning to Douma, with schools and services back up and running. But the war has left its mark: there are around 3,200 orphans in the town registered with his charity alone.<\/p>\n \u201cPeople are safe and have started to resume normal life,\u201d he said.<\/p>\n Shops and businesses are open and streets are busy with cars, as people go about their daily lives.<\/p>\n But Hamu\u2019s son-in-law, Yassin al-Afa, does not hold out hope that he will get back to where he was before 2011 any time soon.<\/p>\n Afa was once a builder making enough income to support his family. Now he\u2019s jobless and confined to his bed after major back surgery, making physical labour impossible.<\/p>\n He said jobs were few and far between and he had no capital to start a business of his own.<\/p>\n \u201cWe were living like kings. We were working jobs and could provide for our household and there was something to look forward to,\u201d Afa said of life before the war.<\/p>\n Hamu\u2019s family tragedy is not unique in Douma.<\/p>\n Umm Bashir al-Saour, a 37-year-old widowed by war, lives with her mother-in-law and four children in the same house.<\/p>\n She washes and cuts up lettuce to deliver to local restaurants for a weekly wage to make ends meet.<\/p>\n She lost her husband and one of her children in shelling during the final days of the conflict.<\/p>\n \u201cWe were hoping things would be better and that I wouldn\u2019t lose my husband, but he left us,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n \u201cIt\u2019s too late for us now but I\u2019m just hoping that things will be better for the children.\u201d<\/p>\nTRICKLING BACK<\/h2>\n