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As America begins to emerge from the darkest days of the pandemic, there’s little doubt many of us are emotionally battered and bruised. Those suffering from depression, anxiety or other mental illness could be on the brink of hopelessness or in full-blown crisis.<\/p>\n
Some racked with embarrassment and shame might want to retreat into isolation or avoid reaching out for help. But now is not the time.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n
Because there shouldn’t be any stigma\u00a0attached to mental illness. It’s a message that Americans must embrace beyond Mental Health Awareness Month.<\/p>\n
It’s so important, particularly during pandemic recovery,\u00a0that Jim Irsay, billionaire owner of the Indianapolis Colts, created a Kicking the Stigma\u00a0family initiative and raised more than $4.5 million this month to help generate\u00a0awareness about mental health disorders and\u00a0expand treatment options and resources.<\/p>\n
Irsay said the initiative was the brainchild of his\u00a0three daughters, Carlie, Casey and Kalen. Conversations around mental health and wellness and\u00a0equitable access to treatment is the first step in helping people realize they are not alone in the struggle.<\/p>\n
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Indianapolis Colts owner Jim Irsay, Luck's wife Nicole Pechanec, Kalen Irsay Jackson and head coach Frank Reich listen and watch as Andrew Luck announces his retirement following their preseason game at Lucas Oil Stadium on Saturday, Aug 24, 2019. (Photo: Matt Kryger\/IndyStar)<\/span><\/p>\n “We’re involved in so many different aspects of charitable giving, but we wanted to really focus on one and have a legacy that we could\u00a0get behind,” Irsay told me. “Particularly with the pandemic going on, mental health is really at a crisis level. It already was at a crisis level before we got into the COVID situation, but afterwards, with the isolation, with the economic hardships and those worried about\u00a0self preservation, it really became apparent that is was really, really needed.”\u00a0<\/p>\n Irsay characterized Kicking the Stigma\u00a0as a counter-punch to the pandemic, an\u00a0unintended consequence that can ultimately be viewed as a positive instead of a\u00a0negative. Concrete statistics on how COVID-19 affected those suffering from obsessive compulsive disorders, postpartum depression or eating disorders, for example, aren’t readily available, he said, but anecdotal evidence has shown Americans are in need of compassionate understanding.<\/p>\n “We don’t know\u00a0the fallout effect\u00a0for the next five or 10 years\u00a0from the pandemic,” Irsay said. “But I can assure you\u00a0it has made the ground more unsettled\u00a0and led to many, many other problems.”<\/p>\n Celebrate Mental Health Month with these self-care products that may help relieve anxiety. (Photo: martin-dm \/ Getty Images)<\/span><\/p>\n Money from the inaugural fundraiser, which raised $2,273,449 \u2013 and was matched by Irsay\u00a0\u2013 will be used to\u00a0support expanded programming by Mental Health America\u00a0Indiana, the National Alliance on Mental Health \u2013\u00a0Greater Indianapolis, Project Healthy Minds and Bring Change to Mind. The fund also will provide grants to Indiana-based nonprofits working in education, support and advocacy of mental health.<\/p>\n It’s a framework that can be used nationally, he said. Using a grant formula, nonprofit agencies that offer mental health\u00a0support and services in each state could widen their safety net with the help of additional resources. “I would love to look back 100 years from now and say, ‘You know, 100 years ago, Kick the Stigma began, and now we’ve raised $2.2 trillion.'”\u00a0<\/p>\n “We know\u00a0it affects every single household, every single family;\u00a0every person brushes across it in life,” Irsay said of mental illness. “These illnesses, like all illnesses such as cancer, heart disease, etc., they’re\u00a0all very difficult to take on and defeat. But when you add a stigma to illnesses that are life threatening\u00a0\u2013 and these are\u00a0\u2013 it becomes just that more difficult.”<\/p>\n (Photo: The Associated Press)<\/span><\/p>\n Irsay has had his fair share of heartbreak and public battles with addiction. His grandfather and father both from alcoholism.\u00a0His sister, Roberta, was killed in a 1971 car crash at 14. His only brother, Tom, was born severely mentally impaired. He died in 1999 at age 45.<\/p>\n Irsay became addicted to prescription drugs after he was treated for chronic hip and back pain. In 2002, he\u00a0sought treatment after his name was linked to a federal and local investigation involving possible prescription drug fraud by a local plastic surgeon. In a 2010 interview with USA TODAY, Irsay\u00a0openly detailed a long history of recreational drug use \u2013 including mushrooms, LSD, alcohol\u00a0and cocaine \u2013 as a younger man.\u00a0And in 2014, Irsay\u00a0went back into rehab after he was arrested for impaired driving and found with opioids in his system.<\/p>\n I asked Irsay if he struggled with his own sobriety during the pandemic. He said thankfully he did not, and used the opportunity to focus\u00a0on learning things like Zoom, working out and spending time with his 3-year-old dog, Drake, who he refers to as his “holy dog.” Still, being unable to see his children and grandchildren was as difficult for him as it was millions of other Americans.<\/p>\n The original draft of the manuscript that would become the Alcoholics Anonymous Big Book, first published in 1939 by Bill Walton and Dr. Bob Smith, is seen in Indianapolis on Wednesday, April 17, 2019. Indianapolis Colts owner Jim Irsay, who has spoken publicly of his history with addiction, purchased the manuscript at an auction last year and hopes it will be a "beacon of hope" for those in need of its roadmap to recovery. The manuscript will be on display at Fairbanks Hospital\u00d5s annual fundraiser dinner at the Westin Indianapolis, Thursday, April 18, 2019. (Photo: Jenna Watson\/IndyStar)<\/span><\/p>\n “I’m diligent about my recovery,” Irsay told me.\u00a0“It’s like amazing grace;\u00a0it comes from a higher power, and it just starts with the willingness for people to say, ‘Help me, I surrender, I can’t do it. God, you can, I’m turning my life and my will over to the care of God.'”\u00a0<\/p>\n Irsay described a hole in his soul that can only\u00a0be filled by being selfless and of service to others. He inherited a franchise football team and saw the glory of a Super Bowl win, he said there’s nothing more fulfilling in life than giving of yourself. And addressing mental illness could change the fabric of this nation.<\/p>\nA counter-punch to the pandemic<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nA hole in his soul filled with service<\/h2>\n
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